Bit By Bit Parenting

Written by Jossy Grishan

Saturday, 13 March 2010 08:49

by JossyGrishan

There are numerous instances that you are raised on stereotypes and they will go on to bother you for a long time to come. And that's exactly what happened to me. Since my childhood years I was brought up on Cinderella and the supernatural shoe and the step-mother which remained in my thoughts for a long time. Every time that I saw my mother get dressed in her Christian Louboutin shoes it'd help remind me of the fairy tale.

That's when destiny resolved to snatch her away from me. My father continued to be single for long until he found a great lady at his workplace and so they thought they would get together to get wedded. I couldn't stomach the fact that there would definitely be another lady in my dad's life now onwards. A girl, who will take over my mother's and my place in his heart!

However, that's the typical stereotypical misconception that was undoubtedly busted once I really met her. She was warm and kind with the most incredibly affectionate brown eyes. She wasn't pretty in the pretty kind of perception but the lady had that very captivating thing about her. She made the extra effort to reach out to me and showered me with womanly affection which I definitely missed getting in my life. She would make sure that she invested plenty of time with me. We'd make biscuits and desserts during the afternoon, go online shopping and that is when she managed the sweetest thing to me that basically touched my heart. She acquired me my very first pair of stilettos. That's when my eyes started to be all misty and I truly missed my mother. She hugged me securely to her and I became so thankful to the Lord for having given her to me in spite of having taken away my mother.

Let me tell you some thing regarding my first set of stilettos. They were silver through out and appeared as if there are a thousand stars studded on them. The Replica Christian Louboutin shoes were priced correctly and I was entirely enamored by them just as I was with my new mom.

I wondered at the stereotypes which kids are raised with. The wicked step-parent and all of that! I hope that can end as this certainly mars the relationship involving two people who can go on and form a bond.

My new mom actually tried diligently to get in touch with me and construct that attachment, the type of rapport which I would have had along with my mother. I on my part too did really everything to make her feel welcome into my heart and home. Every time that i would subconsciously go to compare her to my mom, I'd stop myself and have her being an individual rather than an extension of my mom's individuality.

Well, they've established the date now and I am going to be the bridesmaid. We are certainly looking forward to the adjustment in my life.

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